What should parents do if their child is shy
The main reasons for children’s shyness are: 1. Legal social interaction.
Some parents rarely take their children out to play, have little contact with others, and need exercise.
For such children, first of all, parents should encourage him and criticize him, and should provide children with opportunities to interact with others.
Encourage your children to go out and play with their children. Children will find their own role models by interacting with them.
Then imitate his behavior, the child’s dependence on parents will be reduced accordingly; when guests come to the house, he can be encouraged to send tea to the guests, move chairs, and actively answer the guests’ questions; when parents bring their children to the street, encourage the childrenGo shopping; often take kids to the door.
2. Excessive criticism.
It is inevitable for children to do wrong, and do not always criticize.
It should make sense.
Attention should be paid to respecting the opinions of the children and improving their self-confidence.
Be good at discovering the flash points of the child in time and praise the child’s strengths, so that the child’s shyness will improve.
Parents should understand the characteristics of the child’s physical development, and any blame will hurt the child’s self-confidence and self-esteem.
3. Too many arrangements, and the child’s autonomy has not been developed.
Children should be allowed to do what they can. Children in early childhood love to ask questions, imitate, and play games.
In behavior, they like to compete and do things according to their own ideas, and often show the possibility of being naughty and disobedient.
This is a manifestation of autonomous development.
If parents always feel bad for their children, they are afraid that their children will not do well and do everything for them.
As a result, children’s autonomous development will be suppressed, making them doubt their abilities and forming timidity.
Therefore, we should encourage children to do simple things, such as dressing themselves, washing their hands and face, organizing toys, books, etc.
The child did it right.
We must affirm, praise, and do not do well. In addition to telling them what to do, we should encourage them to do well next time to enhance the initiative of children’s independent development.